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Sexual Health

Work With Me : Sexual Health


Sexual health

I know what it’s like to feel broken, as if your sex life is stuck and you have no idea what the right next moves are. You want to feel good, but you can’t remember the last time you were satisfied, fulfilled, or genuinely excited about your sex life. I know it feels like everyone else has it figured out but the truth is that so many of us are struggling, unsatisfied and unable to access the pleasure of a fulfilling sex life. So let me help you. I literally “wrote the book” on Female Sexual Health. I offer a wide range of consultations/ongoing therapy modalities because I certainly don’t believe in a one-size-fits-all solution. You can work with me in the following ways:

A ONE-TIME consultation just might be the answer you need.

These appointments are primarily meant for women or men who have a specific problem and want general direction for how to address it. After this appointment, you will feel knowledgeable and empowered. And, most importantly, you will have the beginning of a road-map to solving your sexual issue.


During this ONE-TIME consultation we will discuss:

  • Your history and current issues 
  • Your concerns, be they low desire, pain, problems with arousal or orgasm
  • The things you may feel are “abnormal”
  • Practical solutions for you: books, podcasts, apps, vibrators, aids, etc. 
  • Next steps in your journey.
  • If appropriate, we will set up follow up appointments.

Short-term consultations

Many times, a one-off session won’t be enough. But weekly therapy is also not necessary.

These short-term consultations are practical, targeted and solution-focused. We will cover those areas that are explored in a one-time consultation, but work together to build in specific solutions, put them in place, follow up and discuss them.

Short-term consultations usually last for 1-4 sessions over a number of months. Clients will often want to check back in again after 3-6 months.

I will guide you step by step as you embark on the journey.


During these short-term consultations we will discuss:

  • Exploration of your history and current issues be they low desire, pain, problems with arousal or
  • Exploration of things you may believe are not “normal”
  • An outline and road map to getting your sex life back on track.
  • Support as you put some of the solutions in place
  • Exploration and processing if you get stuck.
  • Practical solutions for addressing the problems that might arise.
  • Ongoing suggestions for books, podcasts, apps, and sex aids that might help you along the way.
  • The creation of a foundation for a healthy sex life.
  • The ability to check back in over time and address any road bumps that may arise later.

Ongoing sex therapy

Sometimes it’s clear that your sexual problems are rooted in a more complex set of issues that need deeper exploration. Together we can address some of the issues that are causing you distress.

I can help you face fears, unpack the shame and find your way back to a sex life that feels fun and fulfilling. You’ll find that my approach to sex therapy is still very practical.

While we are exploring some of the larger issues I will still always be working with you to improve your day-to-day sex life, either by yourself or with your partner.


Why You Might Want To Start With a Consultation Rather Than Traditional Therapy:

I don't believe all problems need therapy to solve them. You may already be in therapy with a terrific therapist. Not all sex therapy is the same. Not all bariatric counseling is the same.  Different concerns might require different types of therapists or different types of therapy. You may not want to lock yourself into working with a specific therapist when your answer might lie with a medical provider, a book, self-education, a couple’s counselor, a trauma therapist or a combination of those. An extended consultation will allow you to start with a broader, more holistic view of your issues and guide you to making more educated and wiser choices. If, after the first session, it makes sense to schedule further sessions together, we can discuss that as well.


The cost of each 50-minute session is $400. I am aware that is prohibitive for many people, and if that is the case, I encourage you to continue the search to find someone who works within your budget. However, clients often tell me that meeting with me for 1-2 sessions has been more practically productive than some of the sex therapists they have seen for months. And others have found that after meeting with me they are working in an entirely different direction than they originally thought.

Let’s have a real conversation:

One that is straightforward, comfortable and most of all helpful.

Whether or not you choose to set up an appointment, you deserve to feel healthy and happy and I want to encourage you to find answers to the issues that are bothering you.

Free 10-minute exploratory consultation.


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