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The Pleasure Guide to Vibrators

The Pleasure Guide to Vibrators

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The Pleasure Guide to Lubricants

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The Pleasure Guide to Bring Sex Home Tonight

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“I know of no other book that so thoroughly presents the myriad causes and solutions to women's sexual problems;

Dr. Bat Sheva seamlessly integrates psychological, medical, hormonal, relational, and emotional causes and solutions.”

—Dr. Laurie Mintz, licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and author of "Becoming Cliterate" and "A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex"

“A healthy sex life is as much emotional as it is psychological, and Dr. Bat Sheva gives great perspective and insight.

This book is a must-read, especially when healing from sexual wounds and/or negative experiences while trying to identify what truly impacts your sex life.”

—Dr. Anna Cabeca, Triple Board Certified, OBGYN, author of "The Hormone Fix"

“Dr. Bat Sheva is not afraid to take a controversial stance or bust some myths if she believes it's going to help,

and her toolkit is both wide and deep. Much more than just a talk therapist, Dr. Bat Sheva is a take-action therapist and Sex Points will guide you from insight to implementation.”

—Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT, New York Times bestselling author of "She Comes First"

“For any woman who has ever been told 'You just need to relax,' 'You and your partner need to take a vacation,' or 'It's all in your head,'

the wisdom in these pages will come as a welcome relief and validation that the simple platitudes we often tell women are not only insulting, but just plain wrong. This is by far the best book that is currently available for women who are having problems with sex.”

—Paul Joannides, PsyD, author of "Guide to Getting It On"

“Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus has written a truly comprehensive and compassionate guide to reclaiming your sex life.

Sex Points provides you with a revolutionary points system along with a detailed assessment that will help you to determine exactly what is going on, along with myriad effective solutions to address the problems and gain points. Definitely one to have on your shelf!”

—Nicole Jardim, Certified Women’s Health Coach, author of "Fix Your Period"

"You shared your point system with me many years ago, and I want you to know that I have repeated it many, many times to my patients. It’s awesome!"

—Kathy Herron, Certified Nurse Midwife

“Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus breaks down the root causes of sexual issues and lays out an inviting and abundant buffet of scientifically researched tools available to you to recover your sex drive and orgasm.

We have for too long simply accepted that it's normal to struggle with sex and hormonal issues, especially as we age. It's just not true. Get yourself educated and get your sex points plan together!”

—Alisa Vitti, founder of FLO Living, best-selling author of "WomanCode" and "In the FLO"

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