The Many Myths Women are Told about Pain With Sex Many Myths Here are three common myths that women […]

My husband wants sex everyday Let’s Dive in I usually hear this from the women whose libidos are low […]

Do beautiful people have better/more sex? No. Beautiful people do NOT have better or more sex. I really wish […]

You’ve had a baby and Your Libido Has Taken a Nosedive. Now what? You know you used to be […]

I LOVE BOOKS Seriously. I LOVE Books. No I really mean it. I LOVE BOOKS. To be honest, I […]

Okay… what is sex? Can we please talk about our definitions of sex? “I can’t have sex with him”, […]

Two Things To Improve Your Sex Life Today It happened again today I saw a patient who is in […]

Our Sex Drive is So Out of Sync. Now What? I often hear that women feel that they are […]

The Case For Vibrators Vibrators have taken a bad rap. Truthfully, they can be the most useful and easy […]

To Take the Pill, or Not to Take the Pill…It’s OK to Have Questions Here’s what we know In […]

One of The Most Effective Ways To Improve Your Relationship There is research showing that marriages with good sex […]

Vibrators and Vaginismus Besides starting with a V, most people would probably say that vibrators and vaginismus really have […]

The Project of keeping Your Sex Life Alive – Part 2 Here are 3 WAYS TO MAKE SPACE FOR […]

The Project of keeping Your Sex Life Alive – Part I The woman who edited my dissertation Kristy Lin […]

Let’s Rethink Our Birth Control Alrighty then, let’s dive into everyone’s favorite topic: the wild world of birth control […]

Want More Sex? Here’s a Tip… Yesterday yet another woman told me that one of the reasons she doesn’t […]

What if you Want a Different Kind of Sex: Part 2 If you want a different kind of sex […]

What if you Want a Different Kind of Sex: Part I I saw a client who is in a […]

If Intercourse is Painful Your Sex Life Does Not Have to Be Over Our view of sex as having to […]

I struggle with the concept of casual sex A generation ago the teens were horrifying the adults in their life […]

Reclaiming our fantasy life (part 2) Part 2 Often women clients will say something to me, like “OMG, I have […]

Reclaiming our fantasy life (part 1) Part I If you’ve heard me say it once, you have probably heard me […]

Are you struggling with Initiating Sex? I hear this again and again from my clients. It’s just so hard to […]

Can Good Sex Actually Help Your Relationship? Well, obviously, I think so. There’s some fascinating research suggesting that marriages with […]

Vibrators and men? you bet An article published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy (“Vibrator Use Among […]

Lichen planus and vulvodynia I read a moving and sad article about lichen planus and vulvodynia. A […]

It’s FINE that you Orgasm That Way I deal with many common misconceptions every day in my practice but here […]

Here’s how you can tell if you are sexually compatible with someone I hear it all the time. How do […]

OH YES. YOUR ANTIDEPRESSANT CAN BE AFFECTING YOUR SEX LIFE. Could my anti-depressants be affecting my… sexual desire, my arousal, […]

Low Libido after Childbirth Once upon a time, you were into sex. You remember that was you and not someone […]